…Ngopi dulu yuk…

Ketika Anda sedang bercinta bersama pasangan Anda, Anda tidak hanya berdua. Di atas pembaringan itu ada juga ayah Anda, ibu Anda, ayah pasangan Anda, dan ibu pasangan Anda. Atau bahkan, jumlah orang yang terlibat bisa lebih banyak dari itu.

Kenapa begitu? Karena orang-orang tadilah yang membentuk masa muda Anda dan masa muda pasangan Anda. Memori yang Anda rekam di masa kanak-kanak sebagian besar merupakan goresan-goresan pena dari orang tua Anda, yang makin lama makin berwujud lukisan. Inilah yang kemudian menjadi fantasi seksual seseorang ketika sudah dewasa.

Untuk mencapai kepuasan seksual, tentu fantasi seksual seseorang perlu terpenuhi. Masalahnya, tidak semua orang merasa nyaman mengkomunikasikan fantasinya kepada pasangan.

Jika Anda ingin membahagiakan pasangan, sudah saatnyalah Anda menelusur lebih jauh ke masa kecil pasangan Anda dan berusaha mengerti fantasi seksualnya. Melalui beberapa pertanyaan dengan cara dan pada momen yang tepat, hal itu bisa Anda gali.

Cintailah pasangan Anda dengan cara sebagaimana dia ingin dicintai, bukan sebagaimana Anda ingin mencintainya.

Every man is a connector, connecting The Source to everything. The Source transfers His qualities through all the connections. The Source selects what substance to transfer and how He would transfer it, meaning through which connector. And a connector is just a connector. A connector just waits until he be chosen and used for a transfer.

Well, that is not totally true. I believe The Source also cares about the development of a connector. He wants a connector to become more and more improved so He can use the connector for a higher quality and quantity of transfers. The Source expects a cup not only to be able to contain water, but also high quality wine. A cable which can deliver high electricity power. A huge tree that can be a shelter for many birds.

It is a man responsibilty to upgrade himself so he can accomplish a more enhanced purpose.

What is LOVE? Well, I am not in the authorized position to answer that question.

Anyway, in my humble opinion, LOVE is somekind of energy. It is something that you can not create nor destroy, but you could pass it through.

Man can not continuosly giving LOVE, because he is not the source. That is why, in many cases, relationships fail. The only way for man to be able to give love continuosly is by attaching himself to The Source.

On the other side, man will not be capable of holding LOVE if he’s connected to The Source. He will feel eager to transfer the LOVE he receives from The Source. So, it is sort of an automatic process.

LOVE is not kindness, nor goodness, nor attention, nor committment. LOVE is not happiness, nor sadness.

LOVE is an energy. Take it, feel it, and pass it through.